Infidelity

Infidelity wasn’t supposed to happen.

You knew things seemed off in your relationship, but everyone deals with ups and downs. Right?

You thought it would be okay if you gave it enough time.

Now, after learning your spouse has been unfaithful, your life has turned upside down.

Life is chaotic, and it feels like you will never recover. You will never be yourself again.

I didn’t want to be this person.

You didn’t think you would be the type of person to have an emotional or physical affair, hook up with multiple partners, or use porn excessively.

You love your spouse, but you’re unsure how you got to this place of devastating them. You feel crushed by the shame, disbelief, and fear that you will lose everything. Everything is falling apart.

You want to make it work but don’t know where to start.

Unsure how to get out of what feels like quicksand, you are stuck.

Hope is not lost.

Infidelity is some hard effing crap to deal with under any circumstances.

Whether you are the hurt spouse or the one that did the betraying, the road is rocky with many ups and downs and is challenging to navigate without the proper guide.

Whether you are recovering as a couple or an individual, this is where we can help.

Overcoming infidelity requires rebuilding your relationship.

Infidelity is more than acting sexually outside of the relationship with another person.

Infidelity is the keeping of secrets, such as emotional, sexual, and financial.

Of course, there is a focus on healing the wounds of betrayal. But there must also be the building of trust, intimacy, and restoration of what was lost.

This road is challenging, but achieving healing is worth it.

You will learn what feelings and reactions are “normal” and how to best cope. Identifying what is helpful and what is not is crucial when emotions are intense, rapidly changing, and making life feel very chaotic.

You will be encouraged to come to therapy just as you are and to express whatever you must – completely unfiltered.

At the start, there is a feeling of “I will never be okay.” Therapy will bring you to a place where you can say, “I am better than okay.”

You will emerge with a deep understanding, compassion, and love for self far beyond what you thought was possible.

Let us help you rebuild your relationship and heal the wounds of infidelity. Call today.